Birth Plan Checklist
Birth Plan Checklist: Everything to Include Before Your Delivery
Shelbi Kohler, certified birth doula, 500+ families supported
A birth plan checklist is a list of questions that helps you think through every preference before you write your birth plan, from who's in the room to how you want to feed your baby. Organized by category, written in plain language, and built by a certified doula. Mark what matters, skip what doesn't, then transfer your choices to the template.
How to use this checklist
Don't try to answer every item. Read through each category, mark the preferences that matter most to you, and skip the ones you don't have strong feelings about.
Then transfer your choices to the free template so your care team can read it at a glance.
Category 1 of 5
Labor Preferences
- Who do you want in the delivery room?
- Do you want to be offered an induction, or only if medically necessary?
- How do you feel about continuous vs. intermittent monitoring?
- Do you want freedom to move and change positions during labor?
- Would you like to use a birthing ball, tub, or shower for comfort?
- Do you want to eat or drink during labor?
- How do you want your support team to encourage you?
- Do you want the room lights dimmed?
Category 2 of 5
Pain Management
- What is your first response to being offered an epidural?
- Do you want to try unmedicated comfort measures first?
- Which comfort measures matter most to you? (breathing, massage, movement, water, etc.)
- If you plan to go unmedicated, do you want to be reminded of that goal, or supported in changing your mind?
- Do you want to be offered pain medication, or only receive it when you ask?
- How do you feel about Pitocin to speed up labor?
Category 3 of 5
Delivery Preferences
- Do you have a preferred delivery position? (squatting, side-lying, hands-and-knees, etc.)
- Do you want a mirror to see the birth?
- Who do you want to announce the baby's sex?
- Do you want delayed cord clamping (1-3 minutes)?
- Who cuts the umbilical cord?
- Do you want immediate skin-to-skin contact?
- How do you feel about an episiotomy?
- If a cesarean becomes necessary, what are your preferences? (clear drape, partner present, skin-to-skin in OR)
Category 4 of 5
Postpartum Care
- Do you want the placenta delivered naturally or with medication?
- Do you plan to breastfeed? Do you want lactation support?
- Who do you want in the recovery room?
- Do you want to delay certain postpartum procedures? (Vitamin K, eye ointment: discuss with your pediatrician)
- How do you feel about pacifiers or formula supplementation?
- Do you want help with perineal care and recovery?
Category 5 of 5
Newborn Care
- Do you want your baby to room-in with you at all times?
- Do you want to decline the first bath so the vernix absorbs?
- What are your preferences for newborn vaccinations and screenings?
- Do you want your baby examined in your presence?
- Are there any religious or cultural practices you want observed?
- Do you have preferences for circumcision? (if applicable)
After the checklist
What to Do After You Fill It Out
Review with your partner.
Make sure you're aligned on the big items: who's in the room, pain management, and delivery preferences.
Bring it to your care provider.
Your OB or midwife needs to see your plan before you're in labor. They'll flag anything your hospital can't accommodate.
Transfer it to the template.
Use the free birth plan template or the free app to create a clean, one-page document your nurse can read in 30 seconds.
If you're being induced, adjust your plan.
A generic checklist won't cover everything you need. Read the induction birth plan template for scenario-specific language and what to skip.
If a cesarean is possible, prepare for that too.
Consider filling out a cesarean-specific birth plan guide alongside your primary plan so you're ready for that scenario.
Print copies.
One for your partner, one for your doula, one in your hospital bag. When you're in labor, you won't be searching for it.
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Common questions
What should be on a birth plan checklist?
A birth plan checklist should cover labor preferences, pain management, delivery positions and procedures, postpartum care, and newborn care decisions. Each item should be a clear preference you can communicate to your care team.
How many items should a birth plan have?
Aim for 10-15 preferences that truly matter to you. A birth plan that's too long gets ignored. Focus on the items where you have a strong opinion, not every checkbox on a generic form.
Do I need to include everything on this checklist?
No. This checklist gives you options so you can decide what matters. Not every item will be relevant to your situation. Fill in what you care about and skip the rest.
What if my hospital doesn't allow something on the checklist?
Bring your checklist to your next prenatal appointment and review it with your care provider. They can tell you which preferences are possible at your specific hospital and help you adjust.
Is this checklist the same as a birth plan template?
The checklist helps you think through your options. The birth plan template is the document you actually share with your care team. Use the checklist first, then transfer your preferences to the template.
Can a doula help me fill out my birth plan checklist?
Yes. A doula can walk you through each section, explain the options you may not be familiar with, and help you prioritize what matters most. Learn what a doula does and how working with one can simplify the whole process.
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